50% of games have discussions about who’s in the lead. Let’s say we have red, blue, black, and orange.
Red is a talker, and says: “Blue is the target!”. Or something like: “Why is it me? I cannot possibly win this game!”
But I’m blue, and I call this bs. I think red is actually in the best position. I would then love to be able to click red’s name and make a (public?) offer to swap seat. Red then have the option of accepting, so that he/she then takes my seat as black and I continue playing as red. Or he/she can reject, making the talk stopping…
(OK. To be fair, red would probably claim that he/she is no quitter and will take “full responsibility” of the bad position. But will for the record say that red has the worst position…)
just tell ‘em to stop whining and roll with the punches, it’s part of the game